Most people assume their will controls everything after they pass away. But in North Carolina, that simply isn’t true. Life insurance policies, retirement accounts, annuities, and payable-on-death bank accounts bypass the will entirely. They go directly to the beneficiaries listed on the forms, even if those names were written decades ago.

Gifting assets to family members can feel like a heartfelt gesture. Gifting is a way to help your children buy a home, fund a grandchild’s education, or ensure your legacy stays in the family. But in North Carolina, what may seem like a generous, common-sense move can have surprising tax consequences, jeopardize long-term care eligibility, and even spark family disputes. Before you transfer that deed or write that big check, it’s important to understand the legal, financial, and emotional ripple effects of your decision.