As our parents age, the roles begin to shift. The people who once guided and protected us may start needing our help. This is especially when it comes to legal and financial matters. But knowing when to step in isn’t always obvious. Are they just having a forgetful week, or is it the beginning of something more serious? Is it respectful to bring up legal planning, or is it crossing a line?

These questions haunt many adult children in North Carolina. If you’re noticing changes in your parent’s behavior, health, or ability to manage daily responsibilities, it may be time to take a closer look. Early legal intervention can preserve dignity, protect assets, and prevent painful court battles. Let’s explore five clear signs it’s time to step in; and how the right legal planning can make all the difference.

When it comes to protecting your home, savings, and future care, timing is everything — especially when Medicaid is involved. In my work with families across Garner and the surrounding communities, I’ve seen how quickly life can change and how devastating the financial consequences can be when families don’t plan ahead. This blog dives into what you need to know about Medicaid’s complex rules — including the five-year lookback period — and how early planning can be the key to preserving your assets, your choices, and your peace of mind. Whether you're caring for an aging parent or thinking ahead for yourself, now is the time to act — before the clock runs out.