If you’ve ever thought, “I’ll just add Mom to the deed,” or “Let’s put my daughter on the house so we can avoid probate,” you’re not alone. These quick-fix solutions are common, and they’re often made with the very best intentions. But what most families don’t realize is that DIY planning can cause more harm than good, especially when it comes to real estate and aging parents.

What is a guardianship—and why should you avoid one?
A guardianship is a legal process where the court appoints someone to make decisions for a person who can no longer manage their own affairs due to incapacity. While it may sound protective, it often comes with court oversight, public proceedings, and the potential for family conflict. Worse, the person chosen by the court might not be the one your parent would have wanted. The good news? With the right legal documents in place, guardianship can often be completely avoided.

If you’re like many of my clients, you may be caring for an aging parent or beginning to see signs that a loved one needs more help than they used to. It’s a tough place to be. You’re juggling your own responsibilities while trying to make the best decisions for someone you love. One of the hardest parts? Figuring out how to pay for long-term care without draining a lifetime of savings or putting the family home at risk. Learn some elder law strategies to protect a parent’s Assets without going broke.