Most adult children do not wake up one morning thinking, Today is the day I need to help my parents.

Instead, it starts quietly.

A missed bill.
A confusing phone call.
A fall that feels minor, but leaves you uneasy.

At first, you tell yourself it is normal aging. You promise yourself you will keep an eye on things. You mean to have “that conversation” soon.

Then something happens, and suddenly you are making decisions under pressure.

What is a guardianship—and why should you avoid one?
A guardianship is a legal process where the court appoints someone to make decisions for a person who can no longer manage their own affairs due to incapacity. While it may sound protective, it often comes with court oversight, public proceedings, and the potential for family conflict. Worse, the person chosen by the court might not be the one your parent would have wanted. The good news? With the right legal documents in place, guardianship can often be completely avoided.